Sandy, Great post. Thanks for writing. In this day and age of social media it's very easy to get bogged down in the social media world. It's easy to forget how important it still is to connect to our customers in ways other than social media. Thanks again for writing. Arnold
San Francisco, California
5 Social Networking Tips To Help Keep You Out of Trouble
Is social networking taking over your life? Are you braver online than you would be in person? Are you a friend collector versus genuine connector? Read these tips and you'll stay out of social networking trouble.
Social Networking Tip #6
Don’t let social networking take over your life. Stay productive. Some people become so involved in their online presence that they forget how to connect with people in person and often let their other real-life relationships and responsibilities slide. Once you have profiles created, and an initial presence established, try to spend no more than about one hour a day total on your social networking activities. If you’re not careful when you go to a social networking site, you can become easily distracted. And, if focusing your social networking time sounds like it might be difficult for you then you probably need to take a closer look at how you’re spending ALL of your time.
Social Networking Tip #7
Remember that phone calls and in-person visits are still an important part of doing business. It recently took four Twitter direct messages with a contact to determine where and when to meet for coffee. If she had just called me, the decision would have been made in only a few seconds.
Social Networking Tip #8
Think before you post. Things you put online can and often will come back to haunt you. Any pictures you share, comments you post or updates you write are public. Even if your account has privacy settings activated, your information is never completely secure. It’s best to assume that everything you put on a social networking site is permanent. Even if you can delete your account, anyone on the Internet can easily print photos or text or save images and videos to a computer.
Social Networking Tip #9
Stop being snarky, even if you think the person can take it. The other people reading their updates or posts might draw some conclusions about you that you’d rather they didn’t. I’ve heard of people not getting job referrals because of someone’s impression of them via a few snarky comments they made on the posts of a mutual contact. Besides, if you are questioning whether your post is appropriate or might irritate someone, ask yourself, would you like it if your prospective clients saw something similar written by one of your so-called friends? If the answer is "no," then do not post it.
Social Networking Tip #10
Stop obsessing about quantity over quality when it comes to friends, followers, connections, etc. Be selective about who you accept as a friend on a social network. Did you know that identity thieves have been known to create fake profiles in order to get information from you? Get in the habit of checking new people out via Google or Twitter searches, or even via huge databases like LinkedIn to see if an unknown person appears legit or not. When it doubt, don’t accept. Instead, focus on further developing the connections to the folks you already know and let them help you grow your social networks by sharing your engaging content and insights with the people they know. That way, you’ll at least have a 1 or 2-degree-away-connection to the new people joining your social networking communities.
Hope these tips prove helpful, and below, please feel free to share any additional social networking tips I haven’t mentioned in this post or my last one.
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Comment on this article
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Posted by Sandy Jones-Kaminski, San Francisco, California |
Dec 01, 2010 Thanks Arnold -- glad my article rung true with you!
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Posted by Arden Clise, Seattle, Washington |
Dec 02, 2010 Great article Sandy. With social media becoming more and more part of our lives, it's really helpful to learn how to manage it and to behave when using social media.
I always advise people to never say anything on social media sites that they wouldn't say in person to someone. We seem to feel safe to say things we wouldn't normally say when we are behind the computer screen.
I especially like the tip about quality over quantity. It's hard to make good connections with the people who we most like or like us when our connections are so many we lose track of those close connections.
Great points!
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Posted by Sandy Jones-Kaminski, San Francisco, California |
Dec 04, 2010 Thanks Arden! And, yes, I have the same advice in my book....from I'm at a Networking Event--Now What??? - available on Amazon - http://bit.ly/11x7AMZN :
"And, while today, networking occurs as much online as it does offline (yes, you need to do both), we’re not going to differentiate too much in this book, but it’s worth mentioning that, as a general rule, it’s always best that you don’t do or say anything online that you wouldn’t in person."
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