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  <body>&lt;p&gt;I met with a new client yesterday. She&amp;rsquo;s a great lady with a great product.&amp;nbsp; She&amp;rsquo;s got a good looking website, beautifully produced instructional DVDs and no sales.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To figure out why her products aren&amp;rsquo;t selling, I asked her a series of questions about what she&amp;rsquo;s been doing and what she thinks she needs to do.&amp;nbsp; Part of the problem is that she&amp;rsquo;s overwhelmed by everything she needs to do.&amp;nbsp; She&amp;rsquo;s trying to get sponsorship deals with some of the products she promotes in her DVD&amp;rsquo;s. She&amp;rsquo;s trying to get distribution deals in stores.&amp;nbsp; She&amp;rsquo;s trying to write articles for print and online publications.&amp;nbsp; And she knows there&amp;rsquo;s a lot more she needs to do to promote her business online.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But that&amp;rsquo;s only part of the problem.&amp;nbsp; She knows she can&amp;rsquo;t do everything so she&amp;rsquo;s trying to delegate some of the work but her last two assistants have quit in the first week.&amp;nbsp; This was intriguing to me. She seems easy to get along with and fun to work for so why are assistants quitting on her?&amp;nbsp; As she told me about the people she&amp;rsquo;s hired, the reason became clear.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She, like many of us, likes to help people. Both of her assistants were acquaintances who were down on their luck and she saw that they needed some help.&amp;nbsp; If someone would just give them a break (and some money), they could get back on their feet.&amp;nbsp; They weren&amp;rsquo;t bringing many skills to the job but she was willing to train them so that she would have an assistant and they would have a new skill set.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ahhh! The problem crystalizes.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She was making a mistake many small business owners make and can be fatal to the success of their business.&amp;nbsp; I told her &amp;ldquo;I know this is going to sound harsh but you have to stop doing favors for people.&amp;rdquo;&amp;nbsp; Her eyes got big and she slowly said &amp;ldquo;I have to stop doing favors for people?&amp;rdquo;&amp;nbsp; I could tell it was a radically new concept to her so I explained.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many of us &amp;ndash; especially people with a background in service professions &amp;ndash; get a boost from helping people.&amp;nbsp; We like helping people.&amp;nbsp; It makes us feel good.&amp;nbsp; Many times that&amp;rsquo;s why we got into the business we did.&amp;nbsp; The problem is that we forget to help our business first.&amp;nbsp; When your business is new or at a growing stage, it needs all the help and support you can give it from people who are bringing the right skill set and mindset to the job.&amp;nbsp; At this point your business is fragile and vulnerable.&amp;nbsp; You wouldn&amp;rsquo;t let someone with the flu kiss your new born baby!&amp;nbsp; So don&amp;rsquo;t give people without the right skills and attitude an important job in your business!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s great to want to help people. Personally, a strong motivator for me to be successful is so that I can donate time, money and expertise to the causes I care about.&amp;nbsp; However, I won&amp;rsquo;t be able to do that if my business just bumps along.&amp;nbsp; My business has to be strong before I can help other people improve their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So think about it.&amp;nbsp; Is there someone (or &amp;ldquo;someones&amp;rdquo;) you&amp;rsquo;re giving an important job that isn&amp;rsquo;t qualified or committed to doing the work? Are you spending time teaching someone how to do their job instead of doing yours?&amp;nbsp; Are you trying to figure out how to motivate them so they will have the right work ethic?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now is not the time to take risks with your business.&amp;nbsp; When your business has exceeded your revenue goals, you can give them a chance with a job that is not going to seriously impact your bottom line. But until then, you need to quit being &amp;ldquo;the nice guy&amp;rdquo; and invite them to be successful elsewhere.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</body>
  <created-at type="datetime">2008-06-06T18:26:19Z</created-at>
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  <published-at type="datetime">2008-06-06T19:31:22Z</published-at>
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  <summary>&lt;p&gt;Is your business struggling? Are you giving people jobs they aren&amp;rsquo;t qualified for? Stop it!&amp;nbsp; I know you like to help but a new or transitioning business is not the place or time to be the nice guy.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
  <title>Business Struggling? Stop Doing Favors!</title>
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  <updated-at type="datetime">2009-02-24T09:44:42Z</updated-at>
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