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&lt;p&gt;We mute them, we hang-up on them, we recycle them, we ignore most marketing just out of habit.&amp;nbsp;What makes yours different?&amp;nbsp;If you&amp;rsquo;re a telephone prospector, do you screen your calls?&amp;nbsp;If you&amp;rsquo;re a direct mailer, do you recycle your unopened junk mail?&amp;nbsp;Unless the model is hot, do you read the magazine ad?&amp;nbsp;I thought not.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Why are so many business&amp;rsquo;s marketing in ways that they personally avoid?&amp;nbsp;You might say, because it works, but that really isn&amp;rsquo;t true.&amp;nbsp;Because it has worked in the past is more like it.&amp;nbsp;Spamming to the masses via any media is still spam.&amp;nbsp;Spam is the crap you get from somebody you&amp;rsquo;ve never met, or wish you hadn&amp;rsquo;t.&amp;nbsp;Is that really the business you want to be in?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Looking at the &amp;ldquo;Sales/Marketing&amp;rdquo; section of any book store we see author after author, book after book written about &lt;i&gt;How to Never Cold Call Again!&amp;nbsp; &lt;/i&gt;Ok, we have all read these books.&amp;nbsp;Network, relationship, refer, and pray! &amp;nbsp;In that order.&amp;nbsp;All of these books have the same message.&amp;nbsp;But is it working for you?&amp;nbsp;Are you finding the connectors and convincing the mavens?&amp;nbsp;Yes, building a network can and does work for many.&amp;nbsp;Is it for you?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The advantage of building and using a database from your network is obvious.&amp;nbsp;You already have some report built up with people you&amp;rsquo;ve already met.&amp;nbsp;They are more likely to open what you send them and respond to a call to action.&amp;nbsp;It is also much easier to close a sale with someone who trusts you rather than a person you&amp;rsquo;ve never met.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But how can you stay in front of your prospects without annoying them?&amp;nbsp;How and how often should you stay in contact with them?&amp;nbsp;Do you email them the same industry newsletter that everyone else does?&amp;nbsp;Do you call them every three weeks and make up an excuse to talk to them?&amp;nbsp;Do you send them a postcard with your smiling picture on it every month?&amp;nbsp;If you have a database and been trained to work it, you&amp;rsquo;ve been told to do at least one of these maybe more.&amp;nbsp;I have tried it all.&amp;nbsp;It has even worked a few times!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I have seen many effective and ineffective database marketing campaigns.&amp;nbsp;One of the most effective is from a mortgage professional that I know.&amp;nbsp;She sends a card, with a picture she has personally taken for every major holiday and a quarterly market update.&amp;nbsp;She thanks the recipients for their business and referrals.&amp;nbsp;She also often includes a sticky pad and business card in her updates.&amp;nbsp;My wife has a stack of these on her desk.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Besides the emotional value from the holiday cards all that this effective database marketer sends out is of value.&amp;nbsp;She doesn&amp;rsquo;t beg for business, she informs on how the current market looks.&amp;nbsp;She gives a little office accoutrement with her name on it.&amp;nbsp;Those little sticky pads are always nearby when paying bills.&amp;nbsp;We think of her often throughout the month, even when we haven&amp;rsquo;t received a letter in weeks.&amp;nbsp;I have never thought of her as annoying.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I received 4 Christmas cards this year asking for referrals.&amp;nbsp;Lame! &amp;nbsp;Like I am going to place that card on my mantle next to the one my grandma sent.&amp;nbsp;Receiving a &amp;ldquo;Buy now or miss out!&amp;rdquo; notice every month is also annoying.&amp;nbsp;I am not a fish and won&amp;rsquo;t respond to random lures, neither are your prospects.&amp;nbsp;Respect them and they will be more likely to respond.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;How do you show your recipients&amp;rsquo; that you respect them?&amp;nbsp;Honest personal interest and value are the best ways to demonstrate your value and show them respect.&amp;nbsp;Personal cards with photos you have taken, handwritten notes, market information specific to that client, items of real value like: address labels, promotional items, one cent stamps when postage changes, a beautiful calendar, or possibly even a coffee gift card.&amp;nbsp;Clearly you don&amp;rsquo;t want to waste you money on ineffective marketing.&amp;nbsp;The right program can show large rewards, without overbearing costs.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;It is also important to be working the right database.&amp;nbsp;Are you in a B2B network looking for consumers, in a social club looking for managing decision makers?&amp;nbsp;Choose wisely, all too often people get sucked into the wrong group.&amp;nbsp;Sure they are great people, but should you be spending your time connecting with prospects instead of industry competitors.&amp;nbsp;I have never known a Realtor to sell another Realtors home.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;What is the take away?&amp;nbsp;Don&amp;rsquo;t take your database for granted.&amp;nbsp;Give them information and materials that are of real value to them.&amp;nbsp;Don&amp;rsquo;t waste your time and money copying what everyone else is doing.&amp;nbsp;Figure out how to differentiate your marketing, and make it work for you.&amp;nbsp;The right piece to the right person will go a long way in bringing in the business we all need.&amp;nbsp;And of course if you need help, consult a professional, someone who understands how to help you stand out in the crowd.&lt;/p&gt;

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  <summary>&lt;p&gt;We mute them, we hang-up on them, we ignore most marketing just out of habit.&amp;nbsp;What makes yours different?&amp;nbsp;If you&amp;rsquo;re a telephone prospector, do you screen your calls?&amp;nbsp;Unless the model is hot, do you read the magazine ad?&amp;nbsp;I thought not.&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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