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Enough Already...Are You a Leader or a Follower?

I’ve been seeing a lot of “information” lately about being a leader or a follower. What I’ve come to understand is a lot of mentors, gurus and marketers need you to be a follower.
Written Apr 12, 2012, read 1681 times since then.
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I’ve been seeing a lot of “information” lately about being a leader or a follower. What I’ve come to understand is a lot of mentors, gurus and marketers need you to be a follower. Followers do what they are told. Which means followers will probably spend a lot more money with their “guru” and will implement exactly how they are told. Which means the “gurus” ego can be stroked, so they can capture the followers success and convince a lot more followers to buy.

I’m sorry but I just can’t get on board with that.

I want to play with other leaders. What I know is that leaders make change happen. Followers just haven’t found their own voice yet. So I’m pretty clear its my job to inspire other entrepreneurs, service professionals and marketers to find their voice and shift into being a thought leader.

Now I know not everyone is ready or willing to lead. That’s OK. But my guess is if you are reading this, you feel it — it’s time to step into being a leader.

With that in mind, I thought I’d share a great overview of the difference between a leader and a follower from Inspirational Archive.

Leaders vs. Followers

When leaders make a mistake, they say, “I was wrong.”
When followers make mistakes, they say, “It wasn’t my fault.”

A leader works harder than a follower and has more time;
a follower is always “too busy” to do what is necessary.

A leader goes through a problem;
a follower goes around it and never gets past it.

A leader makes and keeps commitments;
a follower makes and forgets promises.

A leader says, “I’m good, but not as good as I ought to be;”
a follower says, “I’m not as bad as a lot of other people.”

Leaders listen;
followers just wait until it’s their turn to talk.

Leaders respect those who are superior to them and tries to learn something from them;
followers resent those who are superior to them and try to find chinks in their armor.

Leaders feel responsible for more than their job;
followers say, “I only work here.”

A leader says, “There ought to be a better way to do this;”
followers say, “That’s the way it’s always been done here.”

Here’s what I’d add to the list:

A leader uses innovation to create new levels of success,
followers copy what other people are doing to be successful.

A leader recognizes problems and proactively solves them,
followers complain about their problems, staying stuck.

A leader knows they serve the world with their genius,
followers focus on what will make them money today.

Who do you want to be? A leader or a follower? Me, I’m a leader and I love helping others find that leadership energy inside of them. With some help followers can become leaders!

The Big Idea Catalyst /America's Leading Authority on Optimum Performance 
Chatsworth, California 
Melanie Benson Strick

Melanie Benson Strick, America’s Leading Authority on Optimum Performance, helps fast-paced entrepreneurs re-energize their results. Get the free resource at http://www.successconnections.com.

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Comment on this article

  • Biznik Director of Community 
Seattle, Washington 
Matt Lawrence
    Posted by Matt Lawrence, Seattle, Washington | Apr 13, 2012

    Indeed, there are so many ways to lead. I know for one, there are leadership skills that I would like to work on.

    And there are some great ideas in here for me to use, so thank you for breaking these concepts down.

    As a side note, I encourage members to follow Melanie on Biznik ;)

    But really! That way you can stay up to date on the articles she writes and the comments she leaves on other articles.

  • CEO & Co-Founder 
Vancouver, British Columbia Canada 
Patt Leger
    Posted by Patt Leger, Vancouver, British Columbia Canada | Apr 13, 2012

    Another amazing article that speaks to me in leagues...

    I have never been a follower but find the balance of being a leader can be challenging while I am still quite a small fish.

    This doesn't stop me though and your words are encouragement in a path I've led my whole life.

    Thank you for this .

  • The Big Idea Catalyst /America's Leading Authority on Optimum Performance 
Chatsworth, California 
Melanie Benson Strick
    Posted by Melanie Benson Strick, Chatsworth, California | Apr 16, 2012

    Matt, thanks for sharing your personal experience of leadership -- I love your honesty that you do want to work on areas of leadership (me too.)

    And what a nice compliment to hear you recommend me to others. Wowza, making my Monday start off REAL nice. =-)

  • The Big Idea Catalyst /America's Leading Authority on Optimum Performance 
Chatsworth, California 
Melanie Benson Strick
    Posted by Melanie Benson Strick, Chatsworth, California | Apr 16, 2012

    Patt, authentic leaders shine in any size pond. I believe its a mindset more than anything else. So remember you are a leader and the resources, strategies and support show up behind you.

  • eLearning, Presentation Design, Web Video, Voice-over 
Mercer Island, Washington 
Jim Dickeson
    Posted by Jim Dickeson, Mercer Island, Washington | Apr 17, 2012

    Leaders sometimes follow,
    but followers never lead.

  • The Big Idea Catalyst /America's Leading Authority on Optimum Performance 
Chatsworth, California 
Melanie Benson Strick
    Posted by Melanie Benson Strick, Chatsworth, California | Apr 17, 2012

    Well said Jim. And it's OK to be a follower, otherwise leaders would not have anyone to lead, right?

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