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  <body>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Networking is Not An Afterthought (and bad networking is the easiest way to turn off a prospect)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As with all business endeavors &amp;ndash; and especially marketing and personal branding &amp;ndash; you get out what you put in.&amp;nbsp; So if you are going to get the most out of networking you need to have a plan before you walk through the door.&amp;nbsp; Here are some great tips from top notch networkers.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Never go to a networking event unless you know there will be prospects there that can potentially get you business.&amp;nbsp; Sure, you might hit it lucky, run across some stranger by accident that turns into a million dollar deal, but the reality of that happening is pretty slim.&amp;nbsp; So why waste your time?&amp;nbsp; Your time is money.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;2)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; For every networking event you attend, identify five people you must meet, plus another five backups.&amp;nbsp; Not everyone that you are targeting as prospects will show up at your event so you have to have a backup plan.&amp;nbsp; Ideally, you want to keep the number small so you can ensure you really focus on the people that are absolutely your target prospects.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Before you go to the event, rehearse what you are going to say to the people you want to meet.&amp;nbsp; Practice in front of the mirror, or with a spouse, friend or colleague.&amp;nbsp; Net&lt;em&gt;WORKING&lt;/em&gt; is a business art that needs to be practiced over and over again.&amp;nbsp; No matter how long you&amp;rsquo;ve done it, you still want to keep yourself at the top of your game.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;4)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Read from the experts:&amp;nbsp; If you&amp;rsquo;ve never read Zig Ziggler or any of the other true experts on sales, then you owe it to yourself to buy a couple of books and really study the science of salesmanship.&amp;nbsp; The statistics say that less than 1% of the population are born as salespeople.&amp;nbsp; The other 99% have to work at it.&amp;nbsp; If you&amp;rsquo;re one of the 1%, then you&amp;rsquo;ve got it made.&amp;nbsp; If you&amp;rsquo;re not, practice, practice and keep practicing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;5)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; When you get to the sign up desk at the event &amp;ndash; especially at chamber events &amp;ndash; get there reasonably early and scan the name tags.&amp;nbsp; Check off mentally or on a small sheet of paper, the names of your targets that are listed as potential attendees.&amp;nbsp; If they&amp;rsquo;re not listed, then ask the event registration people if they are on the list to attend &amp;ndash; especially if you are a member of the organization, that&amp;rsquo;s what the staff is there for.&amp;nbsp; So put them to work for you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;6)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Once the event kicks off, don&amp;rsquo;t get bogged down talking to people you don&amp;rsquo;t need to meet.&amp;nbsp; Work on getting to your targets first.&amp;nbsp; If a senior representative of the organization is there, ask for an introduction.&amp;nbsp; If you can&amp;rsquo;t reach them, then there&amp;rsquo;s no harm in walking up to a group of people and say, &amp;ldquo;hey have you seen XXXX?&amp;rdquo;&amp;nbsp; Keep asking, because sooner or later one of these cliques is going to point you in the right direction.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;7)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; When you do get to meet your prospect and after you&amp;rsquo;ve introduced yourself, don&amp;rsquo;t start selling.&amp;nbsp; There&amp;rsquo;s no greater turnoff than the bore that immediately starts pitching you for business &amp;ndash; you&amp;rsquo;ve experienced this yourself.&amp;nbsp; Instead, start asking questions.&amp;nbsp; Ask them everything you can about them and their business.&amp;nbsp; Make them feel special &amp;ndash; the center of attention.&amp;nbsp; If the conversation does start to turn to business then keep it focused and don&amp;rsquo;t overstay your time &amp;ndash; because they&amp;rsquo;re there to network as well.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;Instead, suggest to your prospect that you meet with them for a cup of coffee or for breakfast or lunch.&amp;nbsp; Try to get time on their calendar when they&amp;rsquo;re right in front of you, thank them and move on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;8)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Let&amp;rsquo;s not forget business cards.&amp;nbsp; But first, after you&amp;rsquo;ve had a chance to talk to your prospect you need to decide if they really are a prospect.&amp;nbsp; If they&amp;rsquo;re not, there&amp;rsquo;s no point in exchanging cards with someone you don&amp;rsquo;t need to follow up with.&amp;nbsp; However, if you do qualify them as a good prospect always ask for their business card first.&amp;nbsp; If they give you their card freely, that will give you some sign that there is mutual interest.&amp;nbsp; If they hesitate, or say that they&amp;rsquo;re out, then you know you&amp;rsquo;re going to have to spend more time to get them on board.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;9)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Once you&amp;rsquo;ve hit all five of your key targets, you can choose to focus on your backups, you can go home, or look for the random opportunity.&amp;nbsp; The key thing is that you&amp;rsquo;ve accomplished your mission for the event.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;10)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Last, but certainly not least, HAVE FUN.&amp;nbsp; These tips are designed to help you get more out of networking events so that they don&amp;rsquo;t have to be a chore.&amp;nbsp; There&amp;rsquo;s no question that you present a better image when you are relaxed and have a smile on your face.&lt;/p&gt;</body>
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  <summary>You bust your butt to get warm leads, you worry all the time about getting new clients, so if you are going to attend networking events, shouldn&#8217;t you have a plan BEFORE you get there?  </summary>
  <title>It's netWORKING, not Networking...</title>
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