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When Blogging Becomes a Chore

If you aren't a naturally obsessive writer like some of us, but see the value of blogging for business (or pure self-expression) know that becoming committed to it and enthusiastic about writing can be learned--provided you are willing.
Written May 31, 2012, read 1154 times since then.
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What comes to mind for you when you see the words?

Chores. The very word conjures up memories of Saturday mornings spent dusting, vacuuming, doing laundry, weeding and many other unpleasant tasks BEFORE I could play with friends and have fun.

Blogging. The other name for writing short pieces or longer articles that are timely, relevant, contribute to marketing efforts, and has the POTENTIAL to attract more ideal business inquiries.

SEO. Search Engine Optimization or as a gifted translator of a person I know put it to a newbie in the Weekly Writers Support Circle on Tuesday, "How your site and its content get found by people."

Are you among the many who jumped on the WordPress/Blogging Bandwagon? Did you start excited, promise yourself you'd blog weekly or more and lose steam over time? Are you growing self-conscious that your last post was from February of 2012 or worse, in 2011? (Please read on and be gentle with yourself.)

Are you of the belief you must write according to a proven "form" or "system" or "with such intense regularity"?

How long was it before you lost your zest for writing a pithy bi- or tri-weekly post because you:

  • Ran out of "great ideas"?
  • Tired of how long it took to write a post worth publishing?
  • Got discouraged when no one commented (presuming commenting was turned on)?
  • Simply were forcing yourself to write in the first place?

Writing a blog is a wise activity when you naturally enjoy writing or can learn to love writing about your business, your process, your experiences, as yourself in a voice and tone that reflects you. It serves to let your site visitors (and potential clients) meet you even before they call or reach out via email. And who doesn't want a warm inquiry as a business be you solo, small, medium or large in scope?

The new and exciting opportunity that blogging platforms offered was a "boon" (a gift) to those who were already prolific writers. And where once upon a time it was more difficult to get regular writing out in the world--if you weren't also technically proficient with Website Software Programs that were Content Management Systems as well--the current era offers many CMS options. Options that are very plug and play too.

It is Do It Yourself heaven. My first blog (that still exists) was a Blogger blog I started for myself alone in 2005. I chose a design of the 23 offered and started posting personal pieces. I actually still love that blog and its design and always mean to post to it more than I do these days. (Note to self: start next week!)

Then I met "WordPress." It was love at first site.

Oh, WordPress! How much more I can do for myself than before and from anywhere and anytime and with relative ease. I am part of the choir that will forever love writing. I appreciate technology that lets me help myself and helps me get found that much easier. WordPress does that easily and while the Dashboard may be intimidating at first, once understood, it is LIBERATING to compose on the fly and in the cloud.

What do I say to clients who feel like they are running out of gas where writing "intelligently" and "consistently" gets in the way of writing "with creativity and enthusiasm?"

Stop trying so hard and give yourself permission to take a break.

Try crafting an editorial outline that reflects your new business goals (a professional bucket list)

Write some stories about your life and business lessons and then decide do you want to publish them or no?

Take some time to determine your ideal client and profile that person in rich detail and imagine that you are blogging to them.

If all else fails, take yourself or your dog for a walk! Get outside and get some fresh air at the very least.

Once when I was really stuck and in an unhealthy thought loop while I was on a writing deadline, I called a friend who was a professional coach for support. What did she advise me to do?

"Go outside for a walk for a minimum of 15 minutes and look for all the white and purple flowers."

"Why?" I asked in complete confusion.

"Just do as I say please. Will you? And call me when you get back."

So I did. And guess what happened!!! I took the walk. I saw some white and purple flowers and noticed other garden beauties too. I got home and called my friend. She asked me if I was ready to get back to it. And in truth, I was.

My Creative Block was GONE! And writing came with more ease and I liked the results.

If you aren't a naturally obsessive writer like some of us, but see the value of blogging for business (or pure self-expression) know that becoming committed to it and enthusiastic about writing can be learned--provided you are willing. And use some tools to support you such as:

A community of like-minded people (I can recommend a great writing support group and facilitator!)

A calendar with dates you keep with yourself to write for writing sake (and take the best ideas farther!)

Practice. Practice. Practice. (You needn't publish what you don't want)

Read. Read. Read. (At least an hour a week the blogs of others you admire and consider...)

Commenting in a constructive and pay it forward style. (This has been known to inspire people to reciprocate!)

Use "the canvas" that inspires ease: maybe you compose emails well or write differently directly in the WordPress Post Window? Who said you have to write in a Word Doc first? (Do though save your piece to your hard drive and not just on the cloud)

Set the scene. Establish the environment. Dress the part. One client of mind laughed they might start wearing dress clothes to write for their business blog, even though they worked at home.

Try anything once to see if it frees your writing voice and stick with what works for you.

Writing and Reading and Interacting with other Writers is bound to affect your opinion of writing for business and pleasure, as well as develop a skill and an artistry in you and your own writing. Over time your skill and confidence will shift so notice and celebrate the breakthroughs.

Think of it as the equivalent of teaching yourself how to walk (fall down and get up again) or tie your shoes (bunny ears worked eventually) or learning how to print then write "cursive."

Many talents aren't second nature but that doesn't mean we can't make them so. WordPress makes blogging possible on your schedule be it planned out or in the moment.

So let's reframe what we started with:

Chores. Serve to keep our creative energy and productivity flowing well and mastered can save us time and set us free to play that much sooner.

Blogging. It is at its most basic an opportunity to express yourself: casually, candidly, professionally, playfully, and virtually from wherever you may be wanting to capture a relevant moment.

SEO. Think of it like being on a scavenger hunt or geo-caching with a GPS device that makes it easier to find the prize. The prize being a happy client and a happy service provider or product "sold." What are the magic words that used well get you found faster?

So knowing you have the platform, the best of motives, and the means, how about saying yes to the writer within?

Learn more about the author, Deborah Drake.

Comment on this article

  • Activator Methods Chiropractic Care 
Everett, Washington 
Dennis Dilday
    Posted by Dennis Dilday, Everett, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Dan McComb, co-founder of biznik, recommended Blogging to me in 1996. He also recommended WordPress. Both have been a blessing. I didn't follow any rules, just put up nice pictures and wrote about what was going on around me as it relates to my greatest passion: health and fitness; chiropractic, tai chi , diet and nutrition. I don't always feel like Blogging. When I don't feel like it, I don't do it. Seth Godin has promoted Bloggers to blog daily so I try, sort of. The only thing that I don't like about WordPress is that I don't have a way to simply and easily copy the entire history of Blogs onto my hard disc for security. I have nearly 300 Blog posts.

    Thanks for the article. You do like to write and it shows...

  • Small Business Marketing consultant 
Kent, Washington 
Steve Faber
    Posted by Steve Faber, Kent, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Nice article. I've been blogging since 2006, and one thing I've noticed is that bloggin fodder is everywhere, if you're willing to use it to inspire your posts.

    Make sure you overhear conversations when standing in line at the bank and supermarket (somewhat distasteful, I know, but it works great!), read other blogs, and make sure you're always reading magazines and watching TV programs relating to your niche.

    It can be hard to stay focused though, especially if you branch out and start multiple blogs. Losing focus can make you lose readers too, as you get away from what kept them there.

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Dennis,

    I started blogging for 2005, as a place to write online for purely "selfish" reasons, and like you wrote what moved me. A veteran of traditional publishing ( I was in production back then) I LOVED the idea of being self-published, if only on my first Blogger blog. I have the mindset you have, in many ways.

    I can only apply so much strategy to my business writing and then I too always write what I care about and or what intrigues me.

    This article is inspired by the many conversations had on Tuesdays at 1pm (The Writer's Support Group for the Reticent Blogger) going on now for over two years. The funny thing is the themes remain the same...and the best solutions too are always related to "being ourselves, speaking what is true, 'and sharing what we care about."

    Thanks for appreciating the article. I LOVE writing as a form of self-expression and that it shows, well thank you. Lots of practice since age nine.

    300 posts! Bravo.

    We'd love to have you visit some Tuesday and join the TwD Community blog if you are so moved. We are an active writing community! For fun and support.

    Write on!

    Deborah Drake

    Authentic Writing Provokes

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Steve,

    You are so right. All around us is material to reflect upon. We but need listen.

    Author Doris Lessing said that "Writers are like garbage collectors, always looking for details."

    Taking time to really hear and witness clients, life, business, what is going on around us is a great source of inspiration for business and personal writing for me.

    And as for focus and and losing it, that is where I am so glad to have a community to turn to.

    Thank you for your comments.

    I concur with ALL your ideas as well to keep blogging/writing an activity I look forward to doing.

    Deborah!

    Authentic Writing Provokes

  • Marketing Manager 
Spokane, Washington 
Steven Baumann
    Posted by Steven Baumann, Spokane, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Great encouragement! We easily get wrapped around the axle and then discouraged. We forget the reason for writing too easily. practice, practice, practice!

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Steven,

    Glad you feel encouraged. And yes, practice is a sure fire way to a sense of mastery and freedom of expression when we need it.

    Writer's Support Group today had a RICH discussion about this and more and what practice can look like and how it ripples through our writing and business development practices.

    I don't own a dog, BUT I take myself for a walk and jokingly tell my friends who do have canine accountability buddies for "breaks" that I need to walk myself/my dog to get out of my funk, when it happens.

    Thank you for the comment, all the way from Spokane!

    Deborah Drake

    Authentic Writing Provokes

  • Marketing Manager 
Spokane, Washington 
Steven Baumann
    Posted by Steven Baumann, Spokane, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Thanks for your reply! Yep, we're a small insurance broker in Spokane, writing in 47 states for high-risk insurance. I've taken up the challenge of blogging and enjoy it for the most part. I like to write about non-insurance topics too as a break from the day-to-day insurance stuff.

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 05, 2012

    Good for you Steven,

    I know how "regulated" certain industries are, financial services and insurance being two of them...

    All the writing we do feeds into each other.

    Business is Creative. Creative can translate to Business Writing. And that allows for enthusiasm to be found again and again in my experience.

    Cheers!

  • Outsourced Construction Bookkeeping And Accounting Specialists 
Lynnwood, Washington 
Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA
    Posted by Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA, Lynnwood, Washington | Jun 07, 2012

    Deborah,

    I have you and your great Biznik group to thank for getting me interested in building my new website and blogging.

    My first blog was posted on Friday August 26, 2011 and as of today have 155 of them up.

    I spent about 10 minutes sweating about what to say and would it be good, would people like it, is there something else more important I could do…

    Then I remembered something you told everyone at one of your Biznik events that I attended: “Just get started and get something up…you will improve with practice.”

    Well I am now a practicing blogger and getting better by listening to readers feedback. Thank you very much for your inspiration and guidance.

    Warm Regards,

    Randal

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 08, 2012

    My Dear Randal.

    First off, your presence at Tuesday's Circle is still missed. You were literally a rockstar within a week of coming that first time. You came. You came back and reported that you had started a blog and were over the hump technically...

    155 posts and counting and we've only had you grace us with your presence a few times more, because "first things first" and I understand that!

    You are a poster child for how it can be.

    Wow. I hope your comment inspires some "reticent writers/bloggers" to come and see what they might find in our community.

    And by all means, please come and visit when you can.

    Might I suggest that you reprint some of your posts on the "community blog" we created to make it easier to find everyone and their writing? (hint, hint)

    Thank you again!

    Deborah

    Authentic Writing Provokes

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 08, 2012

    A belated shout out to my favorite Wordpress Specialist and fellow Bizniker, Tom Todd of T2 Websites for asking me to write an article for his clientele, that addressed the importance of fresh pressed content for one's business development and site. I'm familiar with some of the creation stories of some pretty simple looking, well-designed custom sites that T2 (http://t2websites.com) has developed.

    It's always a shame to see their blogs go fallow....Sigh.

    Those conversations we have with our peers that get us EXCITED are often GREAT ideas for blogs that will RESONATE with people who weren't in the room when you had the dialogue. A blog post on a heated and intelligent discussion is a great thing to immortalize in my opinion.

    We come to find out that others also will identify with what we are saying; or have contrary opinions they will share--which is equally stimulating.

    Biznik's very own Matt Lawrence said when visiting our Writer's Circle well over a year ago in answer to the question, how does one get started at blogging--what is your best advice?: "Start a blog and write and don't worry about SEO for the first 6 months. Develop first the discipline and enthusiasm. Write about ANYTHING you care about." (Hey, that is my attitude!!! LOL)

    Cheers!

  • Outsourced Construction Bookkeeping And Accounting Specialists 
Lynnwood, Washington 
Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA
    Posted by Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA, Lynnwood, Washington | Jun 08, 2012

    Deborah,

    Your kind words are always appreciated and I sincerely appreciate you!

    As my schedule permits I plan on attending from time to time as there is much to be learned from you and everyone in the group.

    Warm Regards,

    Randal

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 08, 2012

    Randal,

    Look forward to that day that your schedule permits.

    We continue to have "stunning" and "liberating" conversations.

    I feel complimented. Thank you!

    Deborah

    Authentic Writing Provokes

  • Outsourced Construction Bookkeeping And Accounting Specialists 
Lynnwood, Washington 
Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA
    Posted by Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA, Lynnwood, Washington | Jun 08, 2012

    Deborah,

    I do miss those "stunning" and "liberating" discussions.

    There is always a lot of thought provoking insights and warm positive energy in your meetings.

    Warm Regards,

    Randal

  • Outsourced Construction Bookkeeping And Accounting Specialists 
Lynnwood, Washington 
Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA
    Posted by Randal DeHart, PMP, QPA, Lynnwood, Washington | Jun 08, 2012

    Might I suggest that you reprint some of your posts on the "community blog" we created to make it easier to find everyone and their writing? (hint, hint)

  • Small Business Marketing consultant 
Kent, Washington 
Steve Faber
    Posted by Steve Faber, Kent, Washington | Jun 10, 2012

    Deborah,

    I'd amend Matt's advice from "Write about ANYTHING you care about." to

    "Write about ANY (1) THING you care about."

    For both search engines and readers, your blog should have a definite theme. Interested readers will want to keep following you because you're speaking to what they care about.

    If you talk about business one day, classic aircraft the next, and english poetry the day after that, your readres will be left confused. Some may wait for another great postabout what drew them in in the frst place, but the majorit will simply look elsewhere.

    Confusion is the enemy of business, especially when it comes to your prospective customers. Pickl one topic, or a couple of closely related ones nd blog about them. That also has the advantage of keeping you passionate, which leads to better writing and sustainability.

  • Writing & Publishing Coach, Business & Marketing Consultant 
Bellevue, Washington 
Deborah Drake
    Posted by Deborah Drake, Bellevue, Washington | Jun 10, 2012

    Steve,

    I concur to a point, myself. Yes, it could be better to stay focused AND if that leaves you feeling uninspired, writing about something else could unblock you. I suppose you don't need to "publish" everything.

    Brazen Careerist, Penelope Trunk has this post on What is Good Writing that is STILL getting comments and she espouses having one blog for all your themes. But, most of hers are orbiting around Gen-Y issues so perhaps to determine if you want to be a generalist or more specific is the first consideration.

    Developing a Writing Practice that works for you is what it is ultimately about (or so I find in working with people to unleash their Writing Voice.)

    Some of us can't stop writing. Some can get started. Others get stalled and frustrated. My hope is to help people always have a way back to being the Wild Writer they can be for business or pleasure.

    Join us some Tuesday? 1-2:30pm. Would love to meet you face to face.

    http://biznik.com/events/a-writers-support-group-for-reticent-bloggers-aka-writers-101

    Promise you a grand discusssion!

    Deborah

    Authentic Writing Provokes

  • Biznik Director of Community 
Seattle, Washington 
Matt Lawrence
    Posted by Matt Lawrence, Seattle, Washington | Jun 11, 2012

    I also concur with that amendment, which may mean you need to generate a few different platforms to express yourself fully.

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