Rick- ditto what Howard said. It took me quite awhile to learn selling, how to do it with integrity, from the heart, and I also teach it, too. :)
But, even more than selling, one of the things to understand is what I call the Three Journeys of Marketing. For those of us who are gung-ho about our businesses, it's hard to really grok the lag time that usually happens between when someone learns about your business, when they are ready to purchase.
Sometimes that lag time is one minute. Sometimes it's one year. Which is why you need to divide your marketing into Journeys.
First Journey: getting people's attention, and getting permission to be in contact with them over the longterm. I do this through an email newsletter. Some people blog. Some people (although fewer nowadays) send out mailings.
Second Journey: the continuing contact you have with people through your email, blog or mailing. If it's not just promotions, but you are actually offering something valuable, helpful and/or entertaining to your prospects, then they will start to take advantage of your offers.
All kinds of businesses use this approach. the key thing is to:
- Identify the problem you solve, in their words
- Identify the kinds of people/organizations you are trying to reach
- Communicate both your vision/values AND the problem you solve in concrete terms to those people you want to reach, and get their permission to add them to the list.
- Once they are on the list, pitch them offers.
This is extremely simplified, there are details and depths in each of these steps, but it works extremely well.
Make sense? Questions?