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Kaya Singer
Coaching Programs for Small Business
Portland, Oregon
Posted by Kaya Singer, Portland, Oregon | May 04, 2008

Subscribe to Community-wide general discussion A new "Aha"

I woke up one day last week and had an “aha”moment. Sometimes I am baffled at how this whole process works of “waking up.” How do you know what you don’t know and how can you find out what you don’t know if you don’t know you don’t know it?

My new awareness ( well not really new but a new awareness of an older awareness) is "that it is not about what I need from the world," but it is all about "what does the world need from me?"

This changes the whole concept of the way I do my business. This idea eliminates comparison, competition and judgment as we each have a unique "something" that the world needs. What do you think?

6 Bizniks have posted replies

  • Mark Silver
    Posted by Mark Silver, Portland, Oregon | May 05, 2008

    Exactly! bingo!

    Having a business is about being in service, it's about replying to a need. Yes, we need to have our needs taken care of as well, but without truly being in service, a business can't flourish. It can't.

    In my opinion, a business is defined by who it serves and what problem it helps them with, not by what it does.

    The 'what it does' part is too often wrapped up with our own needs- for creativity, for safety in knowing what we're doing, for being an 'expert' or what have you.

    But, when you let go of that, and are only in service to people who need help, when you look around this world of ours and see what part of it you'd like to help make brighter, more wonderful, then you probably have a good business idea there.

  • Kaya Singer
    Posted by Kaya Singer, Portland, Oregon | May 05, 2008

    Thanks Mark.

    I am glad you "get" it too! Such an important distinction. I see people in so much unnecessary struggle trying to figure out how to be amazing or special when in fact they already are. The world really does need what each person has to offer and each person's unique way of helping is needed as part of the whole picture. It is such a wonderful blending of my spiritual and therapeutic views applied toward business.

    And the sun is out today!! Tada!

  • Mark Silver
    Posted by Mark Silver, Portland, Oregon | May 05, 2008

    And the sun!

    I had posted a whole thread here: A question about Beth Jone's USP article.

    I think knowing some sense of uniqueness can be important, but I also believe it's over-rated in business. :)

  • Helen Martin
    Posted by Helen Martin, Mercer Island, Bellevue, Seattle, Washington | May 05, 2008

    Kaya, so strange I would read this today after having a conversation with a friend of mine yesterday. We were talking about real estate because she has only been in this area for 3 years and she says half the people she knows are in real estate. However, with her current job she has the opportunity to meet a lot of people that are selling their homes by owner. It turns out that they are doing this because they do not trust real estate agents.

    Although I've been doing real estate my entire adult life, my friend says she sees my biggest passion in helping other people connect. I do volunteer work with the arts and I had connected an artist here on Biznik with her for a tea shop she owns for the art walk. She is an environmentalist and so is the artist. I also helped her find the space for her tea shop, but not as a commercial agent, as a friend. She asked me what I got out of it and I said nothing, just the pleasure of helping a friend.

    Therefore, she said that my USP is the power of connecting people of like mind and values and that if I approach my career like that, I might get more joy out of it. I did agree with her so I will be updating my website soon.

    Cheers!

    Helen

  • Kaya Singer
    Posted by Kaya Singer, Portland, Oregon | May 05, 2008

    Hi Helen

    Your sharing is really beautiful and I agree that there is nothing more gratifying to be able to help people. Sometimes helping a friend is so more important than money. When you operate form that place it is such a big shift. I look forward to seeing the new tea shop on Alberta as that is my neighborhood and I love Tea shops.

    like your new USP and more important I hear that it speaks to you. Let me know when your new website is up.

  • Carol Skolnick
    Posted by Carol Skolnick, Santa Cruz, California | May 06, 2008

    Very important to keep this in mind! Thanks Kaya.

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Members posting in this topic

  • Mark Silver
    Business Tenderizer
    Portland, Oregon
  • Kaya Singer
    Coaching Programs for Small Business
    Portland, Oregon
  • Helen Martin
    Real Estate Consultant, Referrer
    Mercer Island, Bellevue, Seattle, Washington
  • Carol Skolnick
    Certified Facilitator of The Work...
    Santa Cruz, California

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