Thanks for the great tips Barry.
I personally don't get into the holiday gift giving thing. It's insane. I like getting someone a gift they don't expect at an unexpected time.
I have a few suggestions for people who do exchange gifts and those who have large families:
1) Write a sincere letter/email to invite everyone into a "Let's not exchange Christmas gifts" pact. This can open up the conversation to decide what to do instead. This dialogue would bring people closer, probably more than receiving a gift that will end up in your garage sale in summer. (This pact could exclude kids. :)
2) Agreeing to donate money to a local shelter or a charity of your choosing.
3) Drawing names out of a hat so you only buy for one person and buy them something on their "Top 5 things I definitely need" list.

