The first lesson is to be aware, without judgment, of the emotional dynamics that drive our behaviors. What stories about money and success do we cling to?
These stories, inherited from family and culture, no longer serve us (doubtful that they ever did!).
Some stories that my clients have shared include magical thinking, powerlessness, entitlement, seeing themselves as less or more than money, etc. etc.
The second lesson is to know that we can't succeed by ourselves. Find and listen to advisors, mentors, counselors and/or coaches who are willing and able to see our blind spots as well as our strengths. Much of your work with a good coach will not necessarily be ego-enhancing!

