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Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
Wise Woman, Shaman, Wedding Celebrant, Aura Portraits
LaConner, Washington
Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 14, 2008

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I just spent the day in my office, appreciating the space and the focus that it provides. As much as it is my office it is also my sacred space.

I have items of value to me and me alone: sacred objects, candles, a rock or two. The pictures have meanings and mood to them, even the rug under my desk feels special because it was given to me by my now-passed mother-in- law. All in all, the objects create a place that I call not only my office, but also my sanctuary.

I Know we are all business people here, yet we are also independent, idea filled entrepreneurs, and that suggests a different lifestyle than the business-as-usual cubicle kingdom. Even if your business does have cubicles or if you work at home from your converted laundry room or from behind the counter of your store front, consider creating a sacred space somewhere in your office space. The reasons for doing so are as rich and varied as each entrepreneur, but consider a few: 1.Sacred space provides a focus point. When I am feeling distracted from work, a special object or picture often draws me back to task. 2. Sacred objects and pictures can create an affirmative atmosphere, a place where all things are possible. 3. Personal touches to your space affirms just who is operating here, who is in charge and who is taking care of business. 4. Sacred space declares to the universe: I am here! See me! Hear my wishes!

Story: Years ago, I was giving counsel to and painting an aura picture for a young mom of four. Busy in her life, and with some dramas to attend to, to say she was overstretched was putting it mildly. On my part, besides offering some stress reduction tips, I offered this: “I feel it’s important to create an altar somewhere in the house that is strictly for your use. Maybe a counter top, or a bit of your dresser, but put a candle there, and a few other objects sacred to you, and tell the kids that this is mom’s altar, and they are to respect it. If they want their own they can have one too.”

She went home feeling renewed and grateful. I did not hear from her for quite some time, and when I did it was via an excited phone call: “Elke, I just had to tell you, my house burnt down to the ground last week!” Offering up my sympathy, she interrupted: “That’s not why I called you though. I need to tell you something: when I last left your office, I immediately went home and put together a personal altar on an old steel desk top in the garage. Candles, a crystal I like, a little statue and your aura watercolor to inspire me. I went to my altar when I needed to say a little prayer for me or the kids or for strength or whatever."

"Well, when the house burnt down, the fire was so hot that everything was destroyed, and I mean everything. There was nothing but ashes to pick through a few days later. I went to where my garage used to be and kicked around the rubble when my foot struck a hunk of metal: the melted metal altar desk! I picked up the metal, and could not believe my eyes: There were two candles, un-melted, the little statue, the un hurt crystal."

I murmured "Wow, that's amazing!"

"But wait, there’s more," she could hardly contain her excitement. “Your water color painting of my soul was there, unframed, and absolutely untouched except for one thing: Your message to me at the bottom of the painting where you signed it was completely erased. Other than that, no water or fire damage anywhere!”

The portrait was a testament to her true self, and the opportunity was clear: time to write a new message to herself. Her sacred space survived. And so would she.

Sacred space acknowledges who we are and what we are about. It is a space that can take us out of time and space, and open up possibilities we haven’t even dreamed of yet.

Happy holydays, and find your own unique sacred space.

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  • Terra  Vita
    Posted by Terra Vita, Puget Sound, Washington | Dec 14, 2008

    Hey Elke,

    Having your own sacred space is really important and your article(once again) is a really good example.

    Yes, we are out of the cubicle thinkers, strong entrepreneurs with a vision, mission and purpose. Holidays are full of emotions and a wonderful time to reflect on our lives. Kudos to you for bringing this great reminder to renew and reinvigorate our "special space".

    Off to my office to bless it and get it together-there is that pile of journals and files .... Thanks again for the reminder.

    One of my favorite quotes is from Joseph Campbell: Your sacred space is where you can find yourself again and again.

  • Amy Woidtke (woid-key)
    Posted by Amy Woidtke (woid-key), Seattle, Washington | Dec 14, 2008

    Great post! That is exactly space therapy and this is what I do with people and their spaces.

    The more it becomes about them and their needs and less about just decorating, the more interesting and meaningful it is. Just decorating is fine but bringing meaning and sacredness to space is definitely the best!

    Thank you for the inspiration!

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 14, 2008

    thanks biz-women!

    It's interesting ... Lately I re-committed to my business of 23 years, after considering totally shutting down operations and releasing my office space. I had given myself ‘til December to pour my energies into the “fight” to keep my purpose alive as my business, and then I was going to re-assess, with resume at the ready for a “real” job at Starbucks or anywhere that might be hiring. “After all” thought I, “Who is going to want to use my services in this tough economy?” and other tougher questions that needed answers.

    So now it is December, and time for that re-assessment. My resume is neatly typed and filed in the “to go” box, but there it sits because something happened on my way to closing up shop: The re-commitment to my “capital W” Work.

    My first step was to re-invigorate my office and bring it to life again. I had not really occupied the place except for occasional appointments. I wasn't even writing there, which is my true vocation as I see it, so when all was said and done, the place was about as lifeless as a tomb, to be morbidly blunt.

    With suggestions and cheering on from friends and colleagues, (including bizniks Terra Vita and Leila Anasazi) I went to work, investing in a few sticks of "new" furniture, cleaning out cobwebs and dust animals (more than just dust-bunnies). I gave away all things no longer useful to me, rearranged everything, and most importantly, created a sacred space I can create in. When I had finished with the last placement of the last sacred object, the phone rang three times in a row and I had to use the “call waiting “ feature on my business phone for the first time in years.

    Now, it’s not just about big bucks flooding my bank account—it’s more about sustaining my purpose, and therefore sustaining a business. I think I have a great start, and whatever bucks do come in, I will consider sacred bucks. :)

  • Emma McCreary
    Posted by Emma McCreary, Portland, Oregon | Dec 15, 2008

    Nice, and great story about re-investing in your biz. I think "in these times", spiritual leadership is more called for than ever. Thanks for the reminder about sacred space. I have an altar, but not in my office - time to add some items there as well.

  • Terra  Vita
    Posted by Terra Vita, Puget Sound, Washington | Dec 15, 2008

    There is a great book on making your own altar-in fact there are many books. The one I like is by Seattle author, Robin Mastro. I just ran across it when my friend had her altar welcoming party. A book is not needed but all of them on the subject are sweet and simple. I just looked at Amazon and this appears to be a popular subject.

    You are right, Emma. Now is certainly the time for spiritual leadership or adding spiritual dimension to our business life.

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 15, 2008

    By the way, just for clarification:

    When I say sacred space, I do not mean religious space (although a few people might want a religious icon in their space).

    What I am talking about is bringing an energy of sacredness to the workspace that encourages thoughtfulness, awareness, perhaps reminds one of one’s purpose. I see my office as doing this now. I sit in there and even doing paperwork becomes a sacred task.

    To re-coin an old adage: Before enlightenment, work and pay the bills, after enlightenment, work and pay the bills. Enlightenment is therefore a context to come from as we do our everyday thing. Sacred space reminds us of this.

    Peace.

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 17, 2008

    interesting definition of altar (thanks Terra for bringing up the subject!):

    "An altar... is a place of sanctification where one can focus their intent either generally or specifically in order to prepare and tender offerings, honor the sacred, or manifest result."

    “Manifest result” is a good focus for a business environment, as well as "focus of intent." I had a nice lunch a few days ago in an Asian restaurant, and noticed an altar in a corner of the bar. It seemed to be stressing abundance (fruits and flowers); beauty, (tasteful arrangement of everything); and an icon exemplifying a role model for behavior (Buddha).

    One of my favorite sacred spots of my office is a tiny table with only a few things on it: an angel statue, reminding me that I am always guided; a crystal candle holder given to me by someone I respect and admire is often lit when I want to remember I can shine a light into the world; and a little box containing my business cards and a four leaf clover. The little altar is a small token of appreciation for my life and work.

    What sacred items are in your office?

  • Lauren Bishop
    Posted by Lauren Bishop, Portland, Oregon | Dec 18, 2008

    "Manifest results," I love it! I've got 3 tabletops/desks in my office. One is for my busy work, one is a catch-all, and one is my calm, positive space. This desk is where I can relax, destress, dream, plan, think straight, and focus.

    On the desk, I have inspirational sayings and poems that I've framed. Above this desk, I have several different paintings by multiple artists of the one thing that gives me strength, peace, a chance to relax my breathing, and clarity. Mountain scenes.

    One of my most cherished relaxation moments is when I drive up to Mt. Hood, which is just east of Portland, OR. My entire body relaxes as I enjoy the ride and absorb the power and strength of this mountain. These paintings allow me to remember those drives and give me the energized feeling I need to continue on with my day. They seem to wash away all of the "noise" in my life, if only for a few minutes.

    Great topic. Thanks.

  • Terra  Vita
    Posted by Terra Vita, Puget Sound, Washington | Dec 18, 2008

    Lauren,

    Nice post and that ride to Mt. Hood is fabulous-would love to see those paintings. I like the idea of a calm, positive desk. I used to have separate ones for work and personal-neither particularly calm. The addition of a third one would have been a great idea. I just read another post by you about the fifty-one and counting. Congratulations, I would love to hear more about that. Way to go! I just started using the services of bizniker Krystal Lechner who is fabulous!

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 18, 2008

    Lauren, thanks for wonderful ideas!

    It’s a snow day here in the upper corner of the Northwest, and no-one is going anywhere, unless they have to be out in the crazy weather.

    What better time to create a sacred space where you are planted…even it’s just for this moment?

    • Light a candle and say a prayer for the safety of others, or any other prayer that needs to be stated.

    • Place an inspirational card near your computer/laptop.

    • Do this Sacred circle exercise: Sit up straight, take a deep breath and get centered. Close your eyes, and with your imagination, circumscribe a sacred circle of light around you, about 6ft out from you.

    Affirm to yourself: “This is my sacred circle. Everything and everyone who enters into this circle will be treated with compassion, integrity, and peace.”

    You can then do the bills, write your Holiday cards (finally), write to someone you haven’t connected with for awhile, forgive someone you are holding a grudge against, or even review your business plan. All these are now sacred activities!

    I am lighting a candle of gratitude and safe journeys for all of you and your loved ones right now!

  • Lauren Bishop
    Posted by Lauren Bishop, Portland, Oregon | Dec 18, 2008

    Hello again! We're having a snow day/week here as well, so yes, this is absolutely the time to sort out, straighten, organize, assess your space and set up areas for calming, planning, dreaming and growing.

    By the way, I do not do bills or anything that I might consider "negative" at my positive zone desk. In fact, I don't even take care of the bills in that whole room. That's my space for moving forward and getting focused and happy. I'm sure one could clear the aura, but I have what I refer to as "different zones" in my home and home office, some for the positives, some for the negatives.

    I do a full seminar on "Working With Your Spouse... the Pros and Woes," and I talk a great deal about the different zones of the home, those areas where you can only have positive things and talk about positive topics, and also zones where you can, and must, talk out and work out the troubles and negatives of your day and life.

    Thanks Terra for the congrats on my 51 pounds towards better health. I'll keep you posted and thanks for your interest. I've become a water aerobics jockette and I enjoy it regularly instead of once a month! I'm eating portions for 1 instead of 3. I've given up negative foods that give me no nutritional value. I've ended relationships with toxic people. I've got a success team of encouragers, and I've given up (or really limited) most all addictive carbs, especially wheat and sugar products. I feel fantastic! I've found my sacred space within!

  • Sue Oliver
    Posted by Sue Oliver, Seattle, Washington | Dec 19, 2008

    A few years ago I was introduced to Feng Shui and the importance of creating sacred space. In the past, I've been guilty of keepin very simple, sterile space...few personal pieces, little warmth, etc.. I now realize how important it is to surround myself with much more warmth and connection to myself, others, and my environment.

    Thanks for reminding me of this!

    Sue

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 20, 2008

    Well Sue, simple is nothing to feel guilty about… however, it’s great to hear you’re feeling warmer by adding your personal touches.

    In the darkest days of the year here in the Northwest Corner of the US, I appreciate the value of shedding a little light into the world. Lighting a candle on my desk today, I thought about my past year as a mom, entrepreneur, friend, wife, Biznik, and the myriad other roles I play. I offered up my thanks for the opportunity to share the way I do.

    It was a tense and colorful personal and business year, to say the least, with a lot of dark moments. And yet, lighting my little candle in a newly lightened up office brought to focus the return of the light.

    The world is reeling from the huge changes and so much darkness. Surely, as entrepreneurs, we can shed a little light via our creative solutions.

    Let your light shine! Solstice blessings! Elke

  • Ari Klein
    Posted by Ari Klein, Seattle, Washington | Dec 20, 2008

    Elke,

    What a wonderful thread. I spent 20 years previous to the new millennium in fast paced corporate cubicle land, before taking my calling on the road, so to speak. Sacred space is a must within the corporate world. Your cubicle or office is the place you get to create your alter, which in many cases, others don't even recognize as an alter. The placement of objects that bring you true connection to family, to what you value, to passions, to experiences and hobbies, and it is the only way to remain grounded in our essential selves, while maelstroms whip around us. This is where we connect with our essential selves and bring that truth into our work. It is what helps us to speak our truths and is the the true source of our strength and the successes we create.

    I've worked with many corporate managers who were blown away by the differences it made in their relationships when they personalized their office and how it grounded them to see the faces of loved ones, pictures of their favorite places in nature and other personal items in to work. Suddenly subordinates were more comfortable, and colleagues engaged them in discussions about the objects. They were suddenly integrating who they were into their work and workplace; and transforming the whole workplace by this act.

    Through my work I have come to learn that the whole of creation is an alter, and we only have to listen, and look carefully to recognize the sacred in others. This is transformational in relationships. Just imagine every person you see as a walking alter manifesting the sacred on earth. Yes, there are a lot of diamonds in the rough. Two weeks ago when returning to my car after a meeting in downtown Seattle, I was approached by a 'panhandler' who asked if I would let him quote some Shakespeare to me. While most would push away , or simply give him some change, my impulse was to engage him. This middle-aged man slowly and eloquently started, " Now is the winter of our discontent..." I looked him straight in the eyes with acceptance valuing his eloquence and this space in my day. When he finished his speech he smiled and said, "If you gave me fifty cents I'd just waste it on beer," and turned and went his way. How many of us recognize the gems hidden in the rocks around us, the sacred space we are gifted, and that which we are empowered to create and share!

    • Ari
  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 21, 2008

    Ari,

    The eloquence of the Shakespearean moment, and the fact that you treated the situation with such elegant compassion made me tear up.

    And the tears bring me to this:

    Sacred Space is portable!

  • Ari Klein
    Posted by Ari Klein, Seattle, Washington | Dec 22, 2008

    Yes, portable and always available to us as long as breathe into the moment . There is a door to Sacred Space, and we each hold our own personal key. -Ari

  • Judy Dunn
    Posted by Judy Dunn, Seattle, Washington | Dec 22, 2008

    Ari, what an amazing story. You met that man where he was, in his space, and look at the shining moment you experienced.

    My desk (home office, so maybe it's a little easier) has juggling balls (still learning), interesting shells from my walks along the shores of Anderson Island (reflecting my love of the ocean), a postcard from my daughter with a sand dollar and a package of salt water taffy (from her memories of trips to Westport to visit her grandparents), and my most current journal, the continuing Morning Pages I write in every day (my takeaway from Julia Cameron's book, The Artist's Way).

    It's a way to always remember who you really are.

    Thanks, Elke, for introducing this powerful topic.

  • Ari Klein
    Posted by Ari Klein, Seattle, Washington | Dec 22, 2008

    Judy,

    Corporate or home office games are great! I always had some simple games, some hard candies, and toy musical instruments on my desk at 'work' (and I was on the floor below the executives in my last two j-o-b-s; and they quite regularly ambled through). I have several offices:in my private workspace I can look out and see the water through the evergreens, I have an African slit drum and some maracas from the Caribeean, a carved African wood letter opener, an antique kabbalistic charm and cards that my clients have sent. My favorite is a quote of Maya Angelou, "When we cast our bread upon the waters, we can presume that someone downstream whose face we may never see will benefit from our action." My public office has photos of the sun shining on stones in a stream at Yosemite, marine charts of Cape Cod and the SF Bay, and pictures of my boats (historically)...and of course my Rocky & Bullwinkle & Dudley DoRight bendable figures. I am never without a rock or pebble, a fingering stone in my pocket for grounding.

    Bring on the juggling balls! Every client or person you work with has a child inside who'd love to play with them. Don't hide them!

    Thank you, Elke, for providing THIS Sacred Space.

    -Ari

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 22, 2008

    Now see what you started Judy and Ari…

    On my desk is also a small hedgehog character, like a 50’s version of an action figure in a way… his name is Macki, the son of mother Mucki, and Mecki, the dad and a beloved German children’s cartoon and book character from my childhood.

    The little guy has arms outstretched, is wearing lederhosen and a patchwork vest, and is smiling as if he is knows a very intriguing secret. I look to him to put me at ease when I am feeling anxious about, well, anything. He smiles back at me reassuringly.

    My office also houses: a long legged, blue Kokopeli toy, playing his little flute on my window sill; a rainbow colored beanie baby monkey, legs crossed in meditation, wearing a small bracelet I placed around his neck (it’s a monkey sized necklace of course.). The necklace has a lucky coin on it which I admittedly rub once in awhile.

    and then there are bumper stickers all over the place: One says: “People plan, God laughs…just wing it!” So true.

    And “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it” , always a good business addage: don't make any problems out of nothing.

    And ”Fun is my religion”, which happens to be my theology as a minsiter.

    Amen! “And women!” As Macki would probably say, grinning and with arms wide open to the possibilities.

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Dec 29, 2008

    pre-New year insight:

    Everyone carries the opportunity to create a sacred space in a given situation.

    In the above postings, I noticed that the word “altar” and its similarly pronounced “alter” are actually both good words to use when speaking of creating the sacred. An “altar” is a designated place with iconic or sacred objects placed for the purpose of transforming the ordinary into the extraordinary.

    The word “alter” means to change, and that is exactly what we are doing when we use our intent to create the sacred. We are altering our world by carrying our portable altars with us.

    Create an altar of intent, bizniks, and alter your environment, and the world's to boot.

    blessings.

  • Melinda  Maxwell
    Posted by Melinda Maxwell, Newcastle, Washington | Dec 29, 2008

    Altar/Alter is a really good insight. Thanks for that. We do carry everything with us. Thanks!

  • Kit Muehlman
    Posted by Kit Muehlman, La Conner , Washington | Dec 30, 2008

    Hi I'm new to Biznik, and just found this wonderful thread. Sacred space truly is wherever we can find it, and I loved Ari's story of receiving Shakespeare on the street. I'm inspired by Elke's story of clearing and renewing her office and getting immediate results. For myself, it's time to sell an old desk and turn my home office into a smoothly functioning hypnosis practice area.

    more bliss for everyone!

  • Patricia  Klingler
    Posted by Patricia Klingler, Bellevue, Washington | Jan 09, 2009

    Elke,

    One month later, and the sharing continues. Ah yes, sacred space. That which defines our essence as no other can.

    Many might find my home office cluttered, and yet every item has a meaning and a purpose for me. The framed picture of my parents' headstones, the pink stuffed bear wearing Mardi Gras beads, three dried roses from the bouquet my husband sent in 1995 when I said "Yes" to his proposal, a bulletin board full of inspirational quotes, the tin box with Pick Up Sticks and jacks (play time!). the shadowbox monument to my deceased cat, the small Zen garden, and much more.

    And then there is the inbox reminding me of the articles to be read and written. Bills to be paid are off to my right. A list of To Do's lingers nearby.

    Most of all, though, when I walk into my office, I am reminded of the creativity with which I (and all of us) have been gifted, and for which I am forever grateful.

    Thank you, Elke, and all who have written here with powerful words that soothe, excite, and transform.

    ~ Patricia

  • Rev. Elke Siller Macartney
    Posted by Rev. Elke Siller Macartney, LaConner, Washington | Jan 10, 2009

    Patricia, Lovely and poignant comment.

    I am in Savannah GA right now enroute to Florida with my sister... a family trip, just for the heck of it.

    I packed a little votive candle with me and a few tealight candles to light now and again for some prayer and refelction on the trip. Even this hotel room seems warm & cozy as I check in with bizniks and people far and wide. A networking group can also be a sacred space.

    May you all find peace and sacred space on your journeys.

  • Aqiylah Collins
    Posted by Aqiylah Collins, Vancouver, Washington | Feb 11, 2009

    Elke, how wonderful of you to share the story and the idea that sacred space can be portable! Do you happen to know of anyone doing aura pictures (by camera) in or near Portland, OR?

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