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Rachel Whalley
Seattle Alternative Healer & Psychotherapist
Seattle, Washington
Posted by Rachel Whalley, Seattle, Washington | May 07, 2009

Subscribe to Community-wide general discussion What Makes a Failure?

In this economy, it can be even harder for new business owners to make it work. What happens when you need to pay the bills? Do you take on a part-time job outside of your passion? And if so, does that make you a failure?

How much work we get and how we're making rent is a sensitive topic for all of us. We all want to look like consumate professionals with a booked calendar and oodles of excess cash in the bank. And yet the truth is, 90% of us don't resemble that picture. At least not yet.

Amy Woidtke of EcoKind Design (http://ecokinddesign.com/) will be joining me on my BlogTalkRadio show to discuss the inner and outer obstacles of seeing ourselves as a success, no matter what.

If you have questions about this topic, I hope you'll listen in at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/RachelWhalley/2009/04/23/Emotions-in-Small-Business or comment here!

6 Bizniks have posted replies

  • gulliver !
    Posted by gulliver !, Torquay United Kingdom | May 07, 2009

    >How much work we get and how we're making rent is a sensitive topic for all of us. We all want to look like consumate professionals with a booked calendar and oodles of excess cash in the bank. And yet the truth is, 90% of us don't resemble that picture. At least not yet.

    A similar issue came up when I was here previously.

    Worth a read.

  • Tammy Redmon
    Posted by Tammy Redmon, Seattle, Washington | May 08, 2009

    Well now hmmm. Pay the rent or lose the house? I am thinking you do whatever it takes to pay the rent. And there is no harm in acknowledging the truth that times may be hard or you have had to make a course correction.

    Now the key is that you put people around you to help you identify how to get to where you want to go. My experience tells me that business owners who build support structures around them to expose the truth, are more likely to weather storms successfully than those who fall victim to the change in climate.

    Failure is not failure until I give sanction to the belief or tale that I have failed. Success is also in the eyes of the beholder.

    The bigger message really is, why do people struggle with telling the truth about where their business is, vs. putting on the 'I am FINE' or 'It's Great' face?

    We build fences around us to shade the truth and what a better community would we live in if we spoke out our fears, struggles and even shortcomings.

    Great start to a big conversation Rachel

  • Rachel Whalley
    Posted by Rachel Whalley, Seattle, Washington | May 11, 2009

    Thanks, Tammy and gulliver.

    I hope you both had a chance to listen in to the show.

    Speaking of success and failure, one of the things I'm currently putting energy into is this radio show. I've had some great topics and guests with whom I've jointly created some really helpful conversations. Stuff that I feel many Bizniks and other small biz owners could truly feel validated and helped by.

    ...And yet my audience is still pretty small.

    I guess it's the same question as when I've started each business, really: "I have this super helpful service that could change people's lives--how do I get it to them?"

    Thoughts from you two, or anyone else reading this post?

    Does this show about the emotional content of being in business for yourself sound like something you want to listen to? How can I get it out there to more people (without making that my full-time job, cause I already have my practice!)?

  • Leila Anasazi
    Posted by Leila Anasazi, St. Louis & Seattle, Washington | May 11, 2009

    Rachel, regarding low attendance at your radio shows ... I think that the blogtalkradio interface and user learning curve could be a factor.

    My initial experience with blogtalkradio awhile back, was not a positive one. It didn't have anything to do with the show that I'd tuned in for, just the interface and some glitches. That left me with hesitant to bother tuning in again. Not a fair response, but that's what happened.

    Subsequently I tried to tune in for one of your shows, but there was a problem with timing, and it just didn't work out.

    Today I go back to the station to see if there's an archive and if your shows can be listened to other than real-time. I used the link above and the default broadcast was one from earlier in April, not the current show.

    Because it's you and I like you and I care, I kept poking around and found the current show (there is no "Other Episodes" button; I clicked on your name to find your catalog and more shows).

    And then, I noticed the teeny tiny "iTunes" button and realized that I could probably download your broadcast and listen later. It's a small button and does not enlarge when I increase the text size in my browser, which is unfortunate for those of us aged folks in your audience.

    I hope I don't sound whiny. Just thought it might be helpful to you to have some specificity about the novice user's experience of the blogtalkradio interface; maybe some changes in the info you provide while promoting the shows will help you reach your goals.

    For example, while it won't increase audience participation during the show, awareness that your shows can be downloaded will likely increase consumption overall--helping you get your important messages out.

  • gulliver !
    Posted by gulliver !, Torquay United Kingdom | May 12, 2009

    On the issue of 'I have this super helpful service that could change people's lives--how do I get it to them?', well that's what I used to get the big bucks for from clients - and to whom I'm increasingly saying 'Hang on to your money - I don't have the answers any more.'

    As you'll likely know, it's increasingly a tale of 'do what you reasonably can with the usual ways of getting the word out' - but with increasing chance and decreasing return.

    What I'm certain of is that the key is more specific targeting - 'rather have five strongly-in-favor I-love-this-stuff users than five hundred 'that's interesting' casual readers'.

    But that's alien to many, who'd rather spread far-and-wide than be more selective.

    Specifically with BTR, I've always considered it too generalized. (Sure, the web is generalized, but that's an exception.) There's simply too much stuff there with little distinct identity. It's just a mess - among which is good stuff.

    It's similar to an Amazon of audio programs - and it doesn't work well for either the listeners or producers. Niching will help - the concept of Biznik Radio is good, but wasted in the current expression. It'll benefit from more content, and hosted elsewhere. But even Biznik Radio is too generalized in some instances.

    Another big issue with BTR is the 'dullness' of the presentation - if the term 'radio' is in play, then we have expectations of it sounding appropriate. It needs the jingles, sweepers, idents and other stuff to work. Oh yeah, and music - even on talk-oriented radio. Er, make that especially with talk-oriented radio produced by people who aren't radio professionals. And BTR doesn't do that. Like Odeo, it's simply a catalog to browse.

    Flip that around and make it more radio-ish... and broadcast a stream which features individual programs which can be accessed on-demand and things become more interesting. Add the pro-tech stuff and it steps up a notch. Blend-in music and game-on.

    As an example, and I can't do this in any way other than a plug, consider InnerpreneurRadio (don't bother clicking the link, there's just a holding page for a currently inactive project), the basis of which is:

    'Talk good business. Play great music. Period.'

    Innerpreneur Radio covers the best of Innerpreneur-oriented business & living… blending news, commentary, interviews, features, advice, tips, etcetera with music drawn mainly from 'The Rolling Stone 500 greatest songs & albums of all time.'

    Then we broadcast it, globally, via the Internet. 24-7-365. Free.

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    Jeez, this was longer than expected. I don't want to be whoring myself in a public forum, so I'm happy to continue this privately for anyone who's interested.

  • Rachel Whalley
    Posted by Rachel Whalley, Seattle, Washington | May 15, 2009

    Leila, thanks so much for a) working so much to try to check out my content, and b) letting me know such useful feedback about your experience.

    I am starting to look at the usability of my show's platform and delivery service, due to your thoughts and a couple others I've heard.

    If this is what's turning off potential listeners, I'm really grateful to know about it!

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Members posting in this topic

  • gulliver !
    gulliver !
    Advisor
    Torquay United Kingdom
  • Tammy Redmon
    Motivator, Executive & Leadership Team...
    Seattle, Washington
  • Rachel Whalley
    Seattle Alternative Healer & Psychotherapist
    Seattle, Washington
  • Leila Anasazi
    ghost blogger, author, book artist
    St. Louis & Seattle, Washington

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