I wrote an article last week on my blog that received some good commentary and I wanted to share it here. It is about a "critical mistake" I have heard repeated at Biznik social gatherings.
I hope it helps some of you break free of the standard train of thought. :)
I also have to add that I hope everyone is having a wonderful holiday season!
~Barry
I always knew I wanted to become somebody when I grew up. Now I realize I should have been more specific. - Lily Tomlin
Anyone can be an expert, yet few of know how to define themselves in the spotlight. For several years my effort on social networking was focused on defining your personal brand.
I cannot stress the importance of creating a unique identity for both yourself and your business, when a potential or existing client says your name or slogan, you need to have defined it for them (or they will happily define it for you.)
When I used to introduce myself I would say “I’m an online marketer.” But most people would quickly get a strange look on their face and categorize me into the realm of banner advertising, keyword optimized searches, or even the dreaded niche of being an e-mail SPAM agent.
As with all occupations, from vacuum salesman to real estate agents, there are those individuals who cast such a shadow on an industry that everyone gets branded by a few bad souls who abuse the market. Yet for every evil doer out there, there is someone in the industry who serves as a sparkling example of how things should be done, the right way.
Aside from people mindlessly throwing me into a category I didn’t belong, a lot more people also had no clue what an online marketer actually did. They had heard of Google and Yahoo, yet they didn’t know what a SEO expert was, or more recently didn’t know what a blog was.
So like most human souls, few people are willing to admit they don’t know what you do. They would rather make assumptions and categorize you into a definition of their own making. But were does that leave you?
It leaves you standing there, by yourself.
I finally realized this huge mistake. Ten seconds into defining who I was, I had given editorial control of my life to the person listening to my description. The words were all wrong, the listener filled in the blanks, and I left them with a random “wheel of fortune” decision to whether or not they could utilize my skills.
To recover from this error, I built my personal brand.
I started to do this by changing the words I used to describe myself. Rather than focus on ordinary words, I chose to narrow down my brand to statements that encouraged inquiry or that sounded inspirational.
My original answer of “I’m an online marketer” changed to-
“I help people build a name for what they do so that they can establish themselves in their community. When someone asks them what they do or who they are, I’m the guy who helps them answer that question. I also teach them how to carry that idea over to the online world, and I consult with them to understand how communicating online in a community is a lot easier and more effective than they think.”
That answer details what I do. It doesn’t leave room for someone else to define the benefit I offer my clients. However it does lead them to the question – How do you do that?
That question is exactly what I want. My original answer left closed off the inquiry before they ever really knew the benefit I offered. The new answer encouraged questioning and opened the door to more conversation, giving me a chance to engage them on an intellectual level and support my opening statement with examples of how my professional expertise could impact their business.