I just added my lessons learned to my blog (garageentrepreneurs.blogspot.com) from my first true summer of running my own business. Here are a few:
Put relationships with people first. Whether it be customers, family, friends, etc. People are the driving life force on this planet and the relationships you have with people should be a huge priority. Customers won't do business with you unless you make them feel special, make them feel cared for, make them feel like you care - compete for the emotions of the people you look to serve and they will buy from you. Friends and family deserve your attention at all times - put down the Blackberry, turn off the ipod and play an active role in the conversations going on around you.
Leverage adversity to make your career/life better. Critics are everywhere, they're the ones telling you "you can't" or "you shouldn't" or "I don't know about that". The faster you learn to tune out your critics and battle through adversity, the sooner you will be on your way to business and self-mastery. Take the road less travelled, grow, and you will come out of the end a better person. Life and business is about running toward, not away from, the things that intimidate or frighten you. Try new things all the time, if you don't you might just miss out on an opportunity to discover your new favorite _.
It's not possible to discover new oceans unless one is willing to lose sight of the shore. What a great phrase. You will never find your passion unless you step away (at least for a moment) from what you've always done. If you always do what you've always done, then you'll always get what you've always got - so true.
Life is terminal - we're all headed for the same end. Straight from Robin Sharma. When you remember that before you know it, we'll all be dust, the things that currently limit you (fear, pride, past disappointments) just fall away. No matter how long we get to live, we are all headed for the same end.
The climb offers more value than the mountaintop. It truly is all about the journey. I know I have yet to reach the mountaintop - far from it in fact, but I already see the value in, and am truly enjoying the journey. The climb shapes your character, offers opportunity to realize potential and tests you to see how much you really want to win. It transforms you. There are two kinds of people: those that see barriers and run, and those that see barriers and break through them. What kind of person are you?
Nobody can prevent you from being exceptional. You set your own limits on your potential, and no one can stop you from achieving what you want to. Act as if failure is impossible, wipe out every thought of not achieving your objectives and set no limits on your imagination. When you start accepting mediocrity in your life, you become a magnet for mediocrity in your life.
Run your own race. Explore self-mastery at your own pace. You'll know when you're ready to explore it. Lessons learned about time management, focus, abilities will come with time but only when you are receptive to the ideas. Go at it with a great attitude and act as if failure is impossible, read as much as you can but remember that there are no maps to success, only guides.
