The Uses and Miss-uses of Self Esteem: calling all coaches!
In an article called "The Flat Trumpet of Self Esteem" artist and thinker Robert Genn has raised some issues that I think apply to business and the Biznik community as well. I have been following the Biznik conversation about how to create a better rating system for articles, and I think this applies -- I think it may also be of special interest to those involved in coaching.
Here is the start, take a read, and see the whole article and the hornets nest it stirred up at http://clicks.robertgenn.com/trumpet-self-esteem.php:
"The Flat Trumpet of Self Esteem: "Back in the good old days, the Girl Guides used to get badges for accomplishments. Nowadays they're also getting badges for loving themselves. The self-esteem movement is an epidemic that's been sweeping parts of the Western World--claiming that even young girls need to feel good about themselves before they can do good things. I don't think so. I think you have to do good things to feel good.
It's particularly noticeable in the art game. In some quarters, we go to a lot of trouble to help others feel good. These days some of us are getting all sorts of praise for just trying. The Internet is full of it. Jack writes to Bill: "Right on, Bill--I love your fence posts." Even though Bill's fence posts are substandard, he still gets approval and encouragement. I guess it's more democratic. ...."

