Biznik RSVP's ~ Any Purpose? Any Value?
Over the past 6 months we have been in Biznik, we have noticed an interesting phenomenon that quite frankly, we're not used to in the circles of business professionals that we work with...when members RSVP for an event, and then with no communication, don't show.
Since we were new, we thought this was just a passing trend, or something isolated to a few. Interestingly enough, we learned it seems to be more of an epidemic. In fact, many Biznik hosts have warned us of this fad..sharing that "RSVP's really don't mean much." It just is so foreign to how we do business, both personally and professionally, that we felt it warranted a general comment.
Now, if this was a teenage my--space events, social network, etc., no shows/no RSVP's makes sense. But when the network is in fact professional/business people, well, it just holds little rationale.
In fact, there have been business professionals we have invited to join Biznik who have observed this no-show phenomenon as highly unprofessional. We have all valued the no rules/no penalties guidelines. On the other hand, the respect of one's time/energies/efforts in the same manner you would want with a client would seem a simple standard.
Perhaps it could be a personal Biznik standard that instead of being known as a 'no-show/no response bunch', that we could change that perception by some simple, uncomplicated manners.
Below is our general comment.
Jane Bakken and Jack Fecker
Thank you to all those of you for coming to this event...we both agree...the funnest time we've ever had yet with Bizniks! To hear of your dreams, your journeys, your passions, what you all are bringing to life... fabulous! And to meet your friends and family members was such a bonus. Budy's son, Bryan, age 16, honored us with a song from his last production of The King and I and it was wonderful!
We appreciate all those who RSVP'd even if you couldn't make it...thank you, and we missed you.
We have observed an interesting behaviour that we find odd in a business/professional group, over the past 6 months, and felt a need to make a general comment.
There were four individuals who did not RSVP call/e-mail their cancellation. This seems to be part of a larger trend...others have mentioned to us, 'Well, that's just what Bizniks do...no shows...with no communication."
It seems that "RSVP" with many Bizniks carries little credence. Over our professional years, we've noticed that when others carry little respect for the time/energies/monies of others in simple scenarios, it carries over into their business practice. If a client used your time/energy/gas...didn't bother to call or show up, excepting an emergency, chances are you would choose to invest your time with other clients, especially if it occurred more than once.
We've decided that the simplest thing to do is to request that if you have a tendency to RSVP, and not show with no communication, please refrain from signing up for any of our events hosted by Jane Bakken, or Jack Fecker. That would give us more of a choice with regard to our time/monies/energy~ thank you.
We've also thought it wise not to refer any of our other connections to these individuals' businesses, in that we've found through the years that this lack of respect for another's time/money/energies carries over into business practices.
When we have invited other folks to meet our Biznik network, it was interesting to note their observations of more than half cancellations the day of as 'unprofessional'.
We are not including those obvious emergencies who also notified us. Others mentioned that well, this is just what Biznik folks do...RSVP really doesn't mean much.
This has not been part of our professional etiquette, and while there is no need to belabor the point, we felt a need to speak to the issue. Before now, since we were new to Biznik, we thought it was just a passing trend.
It appears, not so.
Thank you again for all who those who attended ~ It was a great day!
Jane Bakken and Jack Fecker

